If something really bad happened to you, would you rather many people calling you up, showing their concern and asking about what happened or would you prefer people to stop bugging you? I believe it is a contradictory situation. On one hand, you would want people to care about you and to call you up, offer you consolations or words of wisdom, whichever applies. On the other hand, you would want people to stop asking you the same question right? But I think when people keep asking you the same question over and over again and you keep giving them the same answers again and again, you will eventually become immuned to everything, no matter how bad it actually is. Over time, you would have repeated your story a million times that you are even able to recite in your sleep. Oh well, I guess it does help you take things better because you know you will have to repeat it over and over again. That's life.
