Sometimes when you complain about how people dun understand you, have you wondered why is it so? People will only know what you allow others to know about you. If you dun tell them about your life, people around you can only guess what they know about you. I read about this fact in a book that im reading recently and it strike me as particularly true. Although it is a fact, it is weird that it does not occur to alot of people. So, technically speaking, it would be relatively easy to hide your identity or have a secret lifestyle from your friends without them finding out anything you wouldn't want them to know. Think about it. How well do you actually know about the people around you? Do you really think that you know the people around you very well? Even your closest friends? How many things do you not know and how many things are being hidden from you? So, the next time you want to complain about people not understanding you, start thinking if you HAD allowed people to understand you.
