Great.. We just got slammed for helping a friend to speak up. Everyone is entitled to their opinions even if it doesn't involve them. It's human nature. Do not tell me that if you were the outsider and this event happened to your friend and you would not comment. Even if you say you won't get involved and comment, I will not believe unless you tell me you are not close with that friend of yours. How can you stand by the side and watch your friend suffer? You will definitely stand up for her. If you were to tell your good friends and best friend about it, would you tell me that they will not interfere? I know that by interfering things might get complicated but since things are over, why still get affected by comments from others? It's not hypocrisy, it's just human nature. I'm not blaming everything on human nature but that's how people are.
I know that when a relationship ends, both parties are at fault. It's just a matter of how much. I know that she might be wrong too. Instead of insisting to correct the situation, she didn't really want to face the matter and caused the relationship to deteriorate. Instead of trying to make things right again for the both of them, she just let him be. Both parties are suffering and I know that I can't just blame one party. But considering that my basic instinct was to stand up for a friend, it was unavoidable that he would get the brunt of the blame initially. Now that I blame both parties, no one can say that I'm biased.. Wahaha!!~
Relationship problems. Seems like almost everyone is having them now. Seems like not many can walk out of one unscathed and unhurt. Everyone will be hurt ultimately unless you never commit yourself at all in the first place. Suddenly, I think that I'm quite abnormal. I did not suffer the after-effects of breaking up and in fact was more of a relief than anything else. Treat it as a relief and a chance to catch up on your lagging studies. It will be break from such incomprehensible relationships. Practice stoicism. Like what the Duke from 'Othello' said, in the face of danger and misery, smile it off, things will be better.
I shall reinforce my view.
It's ALWAYS better to be the loved party than the party loving others. You get less hurt. Now you know why I don't get hurt.. haha..
