Now on a more serious note about a more pressing issue. I think that this is going to be long so better start on a new entry. I have no idea how to start because I don't feel like slandering anyone but I really think that he's in the wrong. One's my primary school classmate the other's my good friend in class. I shan't be biased but I shall blame whoever is wrong.
So, they broke up because of misunderstanding and lack of time and chances to clear things up. They were such a sweet pair but who knows that things would turn out this way? I thought that he was a nice guy but who knows that he would adopt the idea of 'attached to one, attracted to many'? I cannot believe my ears when I first heard of this idea. How could anyone actually think that they have the right to be attached to one but attracted to many?? So, if you have the chance, you would decide that you want ALOT of gfs and wives because you have feelings for all of them?? Love is selfish, how can you share? It is because of such people that's why there are so many extra-marital affairs and caused divorce rates to increase.
I really want to believe that both parties were at fault, at least a little but the more I read and understand I really think that most of the blame lies with him. In the first place, he shouldn't have went to Pre-U sem and be attracted to another girl. And even after she sorta forgave him for that slight distraction from their relationship, he DID give up on the girl but apparently instead of going back to her, he became attracted to ANOTHER girl from his class or something. HOW CAN THAT BE?
He says that when there's a breakup, the guy will ALWAYS be at fault but when it IS really his fault, why can't he admit it? Does this mean that he do not think that his attraction to other girls when he is attached is NOT WRONG? Fickle IS a choice. You can choose to be faithful. If so many others can be faithful to their gfs and can refrain from liking other girls when they are attached, why can't he?? If he wants to explain, can he give a reasonable explanation? Can he convince us that he was not really at fault? Why does he still want to insist that he was also a victim when he DID cause all these to happen? Instead of trying to clear things up, why did he go for other girls when his own relationship was on the rocks? Why are guys ALWAYS like that? Is it ego? Pride? Just cannot admit their mistakes? Is it THAT DIFFICULT?? No one will laugh at you if you admit your mistakes.
Why? Is sorry that hard to say? Read his blog and tell me if he was right to fall in love with others when he has a gf.
