People always say that when things happen between 2 people, it only involve the 2 people. But guess what, things are never so simple. The world operates in a way such that no matter what happens, it will never be an individual affair. If you think that you can settle your problems alone, by yourself, then I seriously do not think that you are cut out for living in this world.
A couple having problems. Upon serious thought, do you really think that it is only the problems of themselves? If you are a good friend of either or both of them, will you really stand by the side and ignore what is happening to your friends. If you are able to do that, I must really salute you. For being detached from people or a uglier term, heartless. Even if you are able to detach yourself from problems of others, will you be sure that their mood and behaviour will not affect you? This is not meant to be referring to anybody but I believe there are many people out there who thinks that when things happen to a few people, it only involves those people. Others who try to help or stand up for the right party will be termed as nosy or something like that.
Weird to suddenly come out with a theory like this, reason being after reading felicia's blog and found out that her ex-bf's current gf has been dissing her and insulting her and as a result, felicia's friends stood up for her and scolded the other party back. Maybe it may seem kinda confusing but ya, that's how things are. The girl was happily gloating that she is so much better than felicia although how true is it, I have no idea. But whatever the case, as a friend of felicia, I will definitely stand up for her and I did. It's not that I was being nosy or trying to get into some action but if your own friends are not going to stand up for you, then who is?
Think about it. Maybe you might find some truth in my theory or whatever you wish to call this. Or you might come across some inspirations or something else which I did not thought of. But remember, no matter what happens, you will never be alone, be it in handling it or getting involved.
